Levels in life are REAL?

You may look at this post and laugh and think, Life has no levels? However you are wrong, we have many. More than your average video game. (I know nothing of video games do don't ask)

What does it mean?
Right what I mean is, we all go through different experiences which shape us into the people we are and become. A simple way of putting it is, say you had an old friend in highshcool. You got along perfectly. You both went to the same school and experiences the same education with the same dramas and met the same people? You were then at the same level in life, you could relate to each other problems so easily and resolve them quickly.
Say that same friend went to a different uni to you. You haven't spoken in a year or so. You then decide to call them. They tell you about their new life. How they have a boyfriend, a new job, moved house, a pet, new sets of friends. You may still be stuck in the same town, with the same friends with no job and no love interest. Your friend has progressed to another level in her own life. You have not progressed but stayed at the same level in life. This is what I mean about levels.

How do we determine our own levels in life? 
It's simple. How we establish where we are, we look at our surroundings. Because we all experience different things, new people, new opportunities, new locations we change and adapt to fit in with what is happening. For example, your friend who moved to another uni may have met new guys who she liked, them experiences made her date one of them. She saw new friends who were at uni doing the same course as her, they have mutual interest so they get along. You don't go to uni so you wont understand what she is going on about or can now relate to what she is experience, you drift apart. Because you now both have different paths they wont or will cross in life. This separates our paths and levels. It dosent mean we will never get to them levels it means we will take longer to reach them.

So I hope this has helped a bit as to what I mean about levels in life, if you have any questions let me know.


Also if this doesnt make any sense to you then it's ok, you are no where close to advancing just yet.