This post is about things you need to stop caring about. I mean it, these are little and stupid things that you need to just stop giving a second glance or think/
1. People who don't mean a lot
Sure you should care about people, and those who are close to you, but why should you care about those who are distant? We all do it. We are all guilty of it. Scrolling through twitter or facebook and instagram and seeing other people. We are constantly obsessed with the lives of others, we don't focus on our own. So what if you 15k followers don't like you? They are online and technically not real or the same as they would be in real life. STOP worrying about what they think and how they talk to you and start worrying about those in your life. At the end of the day, who are you going to talk to, and who's values do you care about? So what if they are prettier, have more followers and act nicer. In real life they are probably a beg, and you don't want to be a beg so you are already 10x better.
2. Your appearance to others
No one is ever going to be happy with their appearance. No matter what. Even if you're Megan Fox, we all have insecurities, and that's ok. What we need to do is only care what WE THINK. If you learn to love yourself and embrace your appearance then you are winning. If you don't get any likes or faves on a selfie, who cares? Did you post that selfie for them or because YOU thought YOU looked good? Portably because YOU did look good and wanted to show everyone how fab you looked. Stand by it and feel good about yourself because at the end of the day, are the people who say shit going to change anything? No you are the only one who has the power.
3. Regrets
One thing is for sure, us teenagers regret a lot of things. It's fine and normal to do it. We usually do things we regret when we are not in the right state. The thing is just stop. You can't change it so why dawn on it? Do not spend your days regretting things YOU CAN NOT CHANGE. If you can change it then change it, don't regret it. Make a promise to yourself not to regret a single thing. Everything we do makes us the person we are, so do you regret yourself? NO.
4. Things we don't have
We are never going to have everything we want. Even the people with all the money and the Kardashians with their white dreams. I can assure you that money does not buy happiness. I even questioned this myself and finally did come to the conclusion that it simply dosent. Instead of pin pointing the things we don't have and may never have, why don't you make a list of the things WE DO HAVE? Look at all the little things you have in your life and how you have lived with them so far? The thing is, I don't have everything I want and far from it. God I don't even have a proper camera, but what am I doing about it? I'm making the most of it. I am making the most of what I have and not letting it stop me. Sure we have days when we really crave things and compare our lives to others. You don't know what happens behind doors so don't ever wish your life away. Appreciate the little things in life and how they can make you happy.
5. Failure
We are always going to fail at something. I bet you, no one has gone through life and NOT failed at one thing. Think of failure as a learning curve. You may have failed once here, but the next time you try, you know where you went wrong? Now you can do it again without that failure and hopefully succeed. It gets you down and puts you in a real shit place. Just remember that you wont learn or get anywhere without fucking up a few times?
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